Thursday, June 9, 2011

Wedding Wine Showcase

Wedding Wine Showcase

Location: Wine World Warehouse
400 N.E. 45th St.
Seattle, WA 98105

When: Sunday, June 12th, 1PM-5PM
Cost: Only $10 per couple

(PLUS any members of your wedding party can get in free if they arrive with you!)

Please click the website link to register!


Monday, May 30, 2011

Wedding Network USA Tacoma/South Sound June Meeting

Register here:

This Wednesday - Wedding Professionals in the South End unite again!

Where: Indian Summer Golf & Country Club

When: Wednesday June 1 from 6pm - 9pm

What: Networking, Food and Good Times


Greek Chicken Tarts
Fresh Hummus and Olive Tappenade with pita chips
Fresh Fruit and Cheese Skewers
Caprese Skewers

Jicama Slaw with Roasted Red Peppers
Sliced Baquettes with balsamic dipping oil

Tenderloin Medallions and Sauteed Scallops
served with
Oven Roasted Potatoes
Fresh Green Beans

Fresh Berry Parfaits

Let's have fun mingling, networking and enoying the food and the space at Indian Summer Golf & Country Club!

Wednesday, May 11, 2011

How to pick the perfect DJ!

Thought you all would enjoy this article by Jeff Ostroff!

How To Choose Your Wedding Disc Jockey and caveats to avoid
By: Jeff Ostroff

Your wedding DJ determines whether your reception is a boom or bust...

There are thousands of wedding disc jockeys! But how do you find the wedding disc jockey that's perfect for you? Here on you'll find all the caveats to avoid, questions to ask, what DJ equipment they should be using, and what you should have included in your contract. Many tips on this page are only our opinion, you must choose what you feel is right for your wedding.

Choosing your wedding DJ is the best part of your wedding preparations. You get to meet a lot of wedding industry people who are generally nice, outgoing, and personable. Of course the big debate is DJ or Band. That's always one of the hard decisions a newlywed couple must make. The biggest advantage a wedding DJ has over a band is cost. There are some lousy bands out there and many awesome bands too, but many bands can cost a lot of money. I saw an excellent band at a function that charged $4000 for the 8 member group.

Band Or DJ? That is the question!
Here on we focus on DJs. Don't hire a band you can't see or hear first either at a function from someone you know perhaps, that you just happen to attend, or view for a few minutes on a video. People tend to get married within a year of their friends, and may see their future wedding vendors at work on other weddings. Remember, the bands need to take breaks, so they play only a few 15-20 minute sets. But this article is about DJ's. We chose a wedding disc jockey due to cost, and we did not have to worry about a marginal singer crooning our favorite songs out of tune, which we see a lot of here in Florida. Just because one person is a good singer in a good band, does not mean the rest of the world is. Anyone who plays in a band has seen their share of awful bands. And when a consumer advocate like me tries to point out both sides of the coin to consumers, the losers come out of woodwork to complain how useless I am. Those are the people you need to avoid. But I suspect that you'll have the least amount of problems with your DJ than any other vendor, because the vast majority of DJs are great. I've been to maybe 12 weddings in my life and 3 of those 12 weddings (25%) I thought the wedding disc jockey stunk. Many other guests at these weddings back me up about wedding DJs.

A good wedding DJ is cheaper than bands, and they dynamically work your wedding crowd for 4 hours. In rare cases a band might party hardy then decide they don't want to show up. This probably happens more than a DJ not showing up. This is why you should use contracts. If they refuse to use one, then you should refuse to use their services. Bands always arrived late at my friend's recording studio. And before any musicians get all indignant, it happened at my sister's wedding. She hired a highly recommended harpist who was out getting drunk when she should have been at the wedding. Luckily I had brought a wedding CD as backup, the catering manager brought out a CD player, and we had music for me to walk her up the aisle with. So it does happen.
Feedback Alert! What Causes that loud shrieking feedback?
One problem that plagues MANY weddings with bands and DJ's is feedback. Let's call it Jeff's Law of Wedding Acoustics:

Keep the microphone away from the speakers!

Sounds easy on paper, but man, what a difficult concept for some DJs to grasp! Some bands can't grasp this simple concept and often the result is ear piercing feedback. They look around startled like they never heard feedback before, and the singer is standing with the microphone only one foot away from the speaker wondering what the cause is. We were at a wedding and the band produced feedback half a dozen times. Good wedding DJs and bands never produce feedback. “Starving artist” musicians usually cannot afford decent PA systems which result in the lead singer not being heard properly feedback. Wedding guests hate this.

Interviewing Prospective Wedding DJs
Get Wedding DJ References From Friends, Coworkers, Wedding Reception Halls
Your best resource in finding your wedding DJ is people you know. Ask around, try locally famous DJs from radio stations. Some people moonlight as wedding disc jockeys and are good at it. Talk to recent newlyweds, ask your wedding reception hotel or resort, they may have a list of preferred vendors for you to call, wedding DJs whom they trust. They also see the horror stories and know who to avoid. This list contains vendors that the resort has worked with and knows to be reliable and professional. The resort's reputation is stake also. But beware of secondary hotels or reception sites that might not be as scrupulous. Some caterers may get a kickback, so know who you are dealing with. Our DJ was recommended to us by the catering manager at the Boca Raton Resort where we had our reception. Our DJ also worked her wedding, and she oversees many weddings every year so she knew who the right DJ was, and boy was she right!

Interview 3-5 Wedding Disc Jockeys
Don't rush to pick your wedding DJ, they all have different personalities. Ask to see videos from previous weddings so you can view a few minutes of their work. Remember that using computer software, a DJ can edit their best material to make themselves look much better than they are. But at least you cans see them in action. Give more weight to personal recommendations. Scrutinize wedding videos from friends to see if you like their DJ. If you happen to see your potential DJ while you are a guest at another wedding before you make your decision, that helps too. Many people of marrying age attend several weddings in a year, and this is a good time to start scoping your vendors. If you have special song requests, ask the DJ if they have it or if they can get it. If your reception is complex, and in a big well known resort or hotel you want a true professional who works in the big places, not someone who travels the condo clubhouse circuit. Many DJ's may get offended by this, but you really want someone with the experience of working with the catering departments of these larger venues. This synergy between DJ and catering manager is what keeps your function running smoothly. A DJ's talent should reach far beyond just motivating the crowd or making the announcements at the right time. They must have their finger on the pulse of your wedding and know everything that is going on. The only way this can happen is when they have a good working relationship with the venue staff.

Questions To Ask Your Prospective Wedding DJ

Is the DJ familiar with your wedding venue?
Ask your DJ if they have done weddings at your reception site before. It helps that they know the wedding venue, how to get there, and they have a familiarity with the staff. Your wedding disc jockey may also be better prepared to deal with known issues or caveats with the wedding reception hall. Every little positive wedding DJ bullet item you find makes it less likely that you will have problems with your DJ. It does not mean you should reject the DJ if they have not been there before, but it's a nod in their favor.

Who will be your actual DJ spinning discs at your wedding?
This one is important. You would hate to spend an hour interviewing your wedding DJ and like their personality, only to be blindsided at your wedding by having another DJ show up, when you expected the DJ that you interviewed. Make absolutely certain your contract spells out exactly who will be your DJ. If you want the owner and not their employee it should be on the contract. The contract should also mention what time and place they are supposed to be. Call a month ahead of the wedding to verify. Nay verbal promises made by your wedding DJ should be in writing on the contract. They won't remember several months from now what they verbally promised you today.

What about wedding DJ overtime, and other unexpected or hidden fees?
Your contract should clearly specify all costs including any assistant disc jockeys they will have with them, as well as special equipment lighting packages, or other fees that they pass on to you the client. Be wary of vendors who give you low ball quotes, but only give you 3 hours of time. If your reception runs longer, you find out "it's another $200 per hour or we walk out right now". You must also plan for overtime in case the reception runs longer than the contract specifies. The contract should clearly spell out how much extra it will cost you to have your wedding DJ for an extra hour or 2. It can cost $150 or more. Do not believe verbal promises stating they will work extra hours or have assistants for free. Put it in writing in the contract, or they will not do it. Don't be blindsided like many brides and grooms are when there event runs over. I receive complaints from brides whose wedding ran over, and the DJ threatened to leave if not paid in cash right now. You don't want surprises, your wedding DJ contract should be a game plan that covers all bases so you know exactly how much your DJ will cost you.

What attire will your wedding disc jockey wear at your wedding?
Sounds like a no brainer, but you usually want your DJ to wear a tuxedo. The DJ at my brother's wedding was wearing black jeans and a shirt that was hanging out. He was supposed to be wearing a tuxedo. Even the photographer went up to him and chastised him.

How many years experience does this wedding DJ have? Will they play CD's you provide?
Some wedding disc jockey folks have a list of songs they play and except for the bride and groom first dance, do not give you much choice. Our wedding DJ to allowed us to choose at least 50% which is not the norm. Let your DJ be your guide as to what songs should be played. A good disc jockey reads the crowd and knows what to play. Be sure they know what NOT to play, as well as special songs you want to hear. Ask if they will accept requests from wedding guests. Your wedding disc jockey should be flexible with a wide selection, so requests from your wedding guests can be fulfilled. This step is VERY crucial, because your wedding DJ plays about 60 songs during your reception, and you want nothing but the best tunes to keep your dance floor crowded. If the DJ needs to intervene and suggest a song, heed them as they generally know what they are doing and keep up with the current trends. You want a wedding DJ who can adapt to any crowd. This DJ will be someone who is very well versed in all areas music. Don't try to give the DJ a tape or a list of 100% of the songs to play for the night. You hired a DJ not a juke box operator. If they stick to your play list, I can guarantee you'll have an empty dance floor. Your musical taste is not the same as 120 people at your wedding. Let your DJ do their job and keep your wedding guests happy.

Where will your wedding DJ setup? Is there a dance floor?
This is a rare need, but some wedding reception sites require your wedding DJ to bring a dance floor if the room does not have one. Some hotel banquet halls are all carpeted, without a hard floor for dancing. Also, you MAY not want a DJ who comes in and elevates themselves on the stage. We liked our wedding DJ's philosophy that the DJ should NEVER overshadow the bride and groom and he did NOT want to be up on the stage. Rather, he setup off the right closer to the crowd. Bucking tradition at the Boca Resort, we put our bridal party head table up on the stage. This allowed more space in the room for the guests, and ALL of them could see us.

Will your wedding disc jockey need to be fed at your wedding?
Be sure to feed your DJ, with travel, setup, performance, tear-down and return travel, they often go 10 or 12 hours without eating Ask if they want to be fed. Some disc jockeys want food, some do not want to eat while they work. They deserve it though, because they might be there 4 hours with nothing to eat or drink. The caterer needs to know so they can bill you accordingly. They usually make sandwiches for the DJ's, musicians, photographers, etc., or you can just let them eat off your buffet. Verify pricing with the caterer, you would not want them to charge you $150 per head for a DJ and an assistant disc jockey. The DJ at our wedding refused to be served food, don't know why. He felt we spent enough money and should not have to spend more to feed the DJ, so he eats before the wedding. He also felt it was unprofessional for the DJ to be eating when they should be working. We really admired his philosophy on this topic, but it's still ok to feed them, they'll be there 4 hours or more plus setup time. The hotel would have charged $18 for his food. We could not even get him to take a Coke. It's always nice to feed your vendors. We even gave him some chocolate and a centerpiece to take home to his wife after the reception.

Does your wedding DJ have a request form for you to fill out?
Ask for a list of wedding requests and suggestions in all categories. Some wedding DJs have a request form for you to fill out, so they can have everything ready for the wedding. Some obscure songs can take a while for them to obtain.

Does your wedding DJ do corporate functions also?
Ask the DJ if they ever do corporate functions, and view sample videos. If you can find a talented wedding DJ who has experience in corporate functions, then you really have someone worth their weight in gold. These are true professionals with mastery of dealing with large scale projects and all the SNAFUs that go along with them. The DJ we chose does numerous corporate functions in addition to being an excellent wedding DJ, and companies have paid to fly him all over the place. If you are a wedding DJ, this is a good selling point. Not a deal maker, but impressive, and it's ok to use a DJ that does not do corporate work.

What problems has the DJ encountered at weddings and how did they solve them?
You want a wedding DJ who is resilient, able to respond quickly to unforeseen mishaps that can mar your wedding. You can bet that many weddings look smooth, but had issues that were quickly seamlessly patched behind the scenes by DJs, caterers, and other vendors.

Are you insured or belong to any professional organizations like A.D.J.A?
Your contract only states what your DJ will do, but it does not say if they will do it well. Membership in organizations like A.D.J.A. gives them growth, education, and ethics.

How Much Do Wedding DJs cost?
The best thing about wedding DJs is you can find a DJ to fit your budget, from casual guys who moonlight on parties, all the way up to professional wedding and corporate types. There are moonlighting DJ's that might only charge $300. You'll find DJ's charge $400 up to $1900 depending on the area. Your area may be less or more. In San Diego for example, you might expect to pay in the $1300 for a true professional top notch wedding DJ, and no fancy lighting. In 1996 in Boca Raton, FL, our DJ's employees charged $500. But we chose the owner, who was $750 and the price might be higher by now. Our DJ charged a bit more than most local DJ's, as he is very much in demand and highly recommended by several of our vendors. That's a great way to find vendors also. When several different wedding vendors point to the same person as the best, they are usually right. Our wedding DJ more than proved he was worth his weight in gold, as the evening went flawless, not one incidence of feedback, and the wireless headphone mic never gave out on him. Friends of mine several years ago had a local famous radio station DJ do their wedding too, that was pretty cool.

Let the DJ ask you questions too like what you do or don't want to hear. You want someone who takes an interest in what YOU want. We also met with the DJ one last time a few days before the wedding where he phonetically pronounced each person's name he was going to introduce at the wedding. This is a great added touch because no one likes to have their name mispronounced at a wedding. You may want to hire the owner of the DJ company, like we did, even though they usually charge more than the employees. The owner usually is the smartest one and has the most experience.

Stupid DJ Tricks

You may want to prevent some of these things from happening at your reception, a lot of them are preference.

No Business Cards On Display!
Note: We get a lot of angry emails here on from wedding disc jockeys about this who arrogantly tell us "how very wrong you are!). They forget the basic rule of business that the customer is right. If the customer does not want you to put cards out, then honor their request and don't do it. Keep them in your pocket. If the customer does not mind, then you can put the cards out. We were at a wedding where the DJ had several different vendors' business cards sprawled out on top a speaker, and it made the place look like a flea market. If anyone wants the DJ's card, they can ask for one. All DJs carry cards in their pocket. Your reception is not a community bulletin board. All DJs take note: In our opinion, this is one of the tackiest things DJs do. Many guests at weddings we attended agree. This was the first thing we demanded but of course our DJ did not condone this activity either. I've had a few DJ's who chastise me for this view, and they claim this is acceptable, as people don't want to interrupt a DJ for their card. This will always be a controversial issue, but let me just point out that our DJ does not believe in putting business cards out. It all depends on your comfort factor. Everyone I asked about this disagrees with the DJs who send us the letters telling us how wrong we are on this subject, and some of them are down right rude and arrogant about it. OK so we are wrong and all our friends are wrong, and all our co workers are wrong, and we are the customers who don't really know what we want, and we are all just wrong? Give me a break.

No Revolving Police Lights!
See this light off to the left? You don't want it at your wedding. Or maybe you do, if you want that police raid look at your wedding, it's your decision. This is just OUR opinion, but this is on the Tacky Top Ten, a cheap way for the DJ to give off a lot of light on a budget.

Not Enough Good Music Selection!
We attended a wedding where my own 430 CDs were more than the DJ's! I know, he may only play 60 songs the whole night, so how many CD's does he need? Apparently he did not have the standard songs that guests were requesting, nor could he read the crowd to play the songs that would keep them dancing. At one wedding the DJ really played some old dried out useless songs, and did not have half the songs people requested. The quality is more important than the quantity. Most DJ's use many compilation CD's and order through a record pool buying service These compilations are great cost effective ways for DJ's to buy all the hits. Why spend $12.00 on a CD with 1 or 2 hits when you can spend $12.00 on a CD with 20 hits?

The problem with the DJ at my friend's wedding was he had about 100 regular CD's, so I would have to fish through 10 of them to find 2 decent hits that I thought the crowd might enjoy. This DJ and his setup were not even facing the dance floor!! Could anyone be more stupid! He spent most of the time with his back to the dance floor (his equipment was facing the back wall) flipping through his small collection of CDs for the next song when he should have been reading the crowd. He even played several songs more than once! Then he complained to me that no one was out there dancing. Gee, I think we're going to have to book time on the Pentagon's Cray III computer to figure this one out. Obviously the DJ did not determine ahead of time what musical preferences would be, nor did he read the crowd properly. So no wonder the dance floor was empty.

The same aforementioned DJ asked me to pick a few songs from his collection to get the crowd going, which I did. He lacked 2 songs that several guests asked to hear, which every DJ should have. Also, he did such a poor job wiring his Karaoke monitor, that he had to fiddle with it a many times during the reception, and finally gave up. No more Karaoke. He hardly ever got on the mic to motivate anyone to dance either. It seemed like he was there to just queue up CD's and nothing else. Heck I'd have done that for free and saved my friend the money and aggravation. The bride was upset after the wedding about this. No wonder the DJ complained to me there was no one on the dance floor. We had to choose a couple of tunes for him which DID fill the dance floor. If the DJ is not constantly motivating the crowd, the floor will be empty, and your reception will be a bust. It's like a strange quiet party. You need constant motivation from an experienced crowd pleaser. This same DJ did not even help us during the Macarena (it was THE dance back then, what can I say). At our wedding, the DJ and assistant both showed us the moves so we did not all crash into each other and abandon the floor like my friend's wedding. After the wedding the bride expressed her anguish, shaking her head, saying this guy came highly recommended. Keep in mind this is the exception, not the norm. If you are a worshipper of the Lord, you may ask that none of the songs have any offensive lyrics. You'd hate to be there with your pastor and congregation members when the Divinyls song "I Touch Myself" comes on.

The DJ at my brother's wedding really screwed things up. He was so highly recommended by everyone and my brother was at a loss for words trying to figure out how everything went south on him. The DJ did not play the songs he was supposed to play. He missed the song for the Bride & Dad dance! What a big mistake. During the Groom & Mom dance, the groom and mom were kept waiting alone on the empty dance floor for 5 minutes because the wedding disc jockey could not get his player to work. Let's see I think you just push the one that says "play"....

You can see I am not just giving you anecdotal evidence, we have been to several weddings where the DJ was the main factor in whether the reception was boom or bust.

Most DJ's are excellent, but you can see the importance of a little due diligence ahead of time. Try to see them at a function first or on video.

DJ's Should Know The Itinerary at your wedding reception!
It is the DJ's responsibility to know when all the events are supposed to occur during reception, like cake cutting, bouquet tosses, birthday surprises, etc. The DJ we mentioned in the preceding paragraph did not know when anything was being done. Around cake cutting time, I asked him when it was going to occur and he had no clue. The DJ's job is to work with catering, and know when meals are being served and when the milestone events are to take place. NOBODY in the whole wedding knew when anything was happening so it was somewhat confusing. The DJ and the caterer should have this under control before your reception begins! The DJ, caterer, and Photographer should all be in contact and playing off the same sheet of music.

Cordless Mics Are a Plus!
I'm sure some DJ's will gripe at me for this, but the microphone chord is a safety hazard, and it is restricting, although some venues you cannot get out of using cords, due to interference issues. A wireless microphone system, if properly setup and sound checked, and stocked with a redundant backup with batteries, should work out just fine. Sure there's headaches associated with wireless systems, such as interference on the same frequency, and some reception halls, cordless just won't work no matter how hard they try. But testing and redundancy is the key. We had no problems at all during our 4 hour reception, and our DJ used only a wireless headset the whole evening. This is not a requirement, just a preference. Many fine DJ's are still using corded microphones. Remember, some areas you just cannot use wireless microphone due to local interference. Avoid wireless lapel microphones. For outdoor weddings they are useless, suffering from poor performance and wind noise.

What about Chicken Dance, or Hokey Pokey?
Some people love it, some people hate it. The consensus among our friends and numerous coworkers is that we made the right choice in NOT allowing it in our wedding. I believe these songs are outlawed in fifteen states now, anyway. Just kidding. Most guests feel Uncomfortable doing these cheesy dances. I even felt uncomfortable doing the Macarena. But it's your wedding, and you might want to hear them, that's fine too. But the point is let the wedding disc jockey know your preference. If you hate these songs, you would hate to be surprised by your DJ playing them at the reception. Group effort songs (i.e. the old "Electric Slide" always fills the floor. The Macarena and the Electric Slide became popular in their day because people who can't dance will usually get up and dance to a group activity song. A good conga line will always fill the floor. Each group of people is different. I polled several friends, coworkers, and wedding guests of other weddings we attended, and it was unanimous: No Chicken Dance, it belongs at Oktoberfest, not a wedding. But then many DJs email us to say that it's a favorite crowd pleaser at many weddings they do. Your group of people might have the best time in the world with it, but it's your decision.

Technical Issues to consider.
Everyone overlooks this, but it is an important factor when choosing your DJ. You are paying money for a professional and they better know their equipment. Ask them what speakers and amps they use. The better speaker brand names are Mackie, JBL and Electrovoice (with the "EV" on the speaker). Some DJs use Rane for their mixer. But this is not an exhaustive list, there are other good names as well. This is another reason why you asked the DJ if they do corporate affairs, because they may use the same high end audio equipment at your wedding. You don't want them using home stereo amplifiers and speakers because they will fail under the volume of use. We were at a wedding once and could not hear the DJ announcing the bridal party because the volume was too low and it was muffled, all base and hardly any treble. This DJ did not test the acoustics of the room with a simple sound check before they started. Can you say.... Equalizer? This is why they must have good equipment, and know how to set it up.

A DJ with a wireless headset is a plus. With the headset mic, the element is always right in front of the DJ's mouth, and the gain need not be set as high as a handheld microphone. Thus the headset is less likely to cause feedback, and if they place the antenna properly, there won't be any noise or interference. Also the DJ can easily roam around hands free, or even blend in with the crowd during group effort dances. If a DJ tells you wireless mics don't work, or give excuses why they don't work, it's because they either used cheap equipment, did not want to spend the money, or simply did not know how to properly setup tricky setup wireless mics. They can be difficult to setup. I've been to dozens of concerts with wireless mics and never saw a problem. Used properly, these units are great tools of the trade. On the other hand, I've seen DJs walk around swinging the mic, not noticing they are about to step into the Twilight Zone in front of the speaker and violate Jeff's Law of Wedding Acoustics mentioned earlier. Then, a loud shrill of feedback fills the room.

Lighting is another thing to consider. Can your DJ get additional lighting? Some people want it, some could care less if they want to save money. But we wanted to put on a show they would remember. If you want state of the art lighting, some of the bigger DJ companies can master this for you very easily. Again, this is where DJs with corporate event experience really excel. They usually have the top notch lighting, not old cheesy disco balls with 2 glorified lawn lights. We did go a little overboard, spending $800 on an intelligent lighting system consisting of 4 intelligent units and 2 sound activated gobos. Man what a show that was. The ballroom was FILLED with light. Many guests told us it looked like a rock concert, with numerous beams everywhere. And this did not upset the older crowd either, which was a worry of mine. We were pleasantly surprised to see many of them out there dancing the new tunes with us. This may not be for all of you, but if you have the means, go for it. Our wedding video looks like Soul Train. I was surprised that our DJ tried to talk us out of this package, stating corporations are the typical customer. But more and more "consumer" affairs are going this way.

You Must Have A Clear, Concise, Written Contract!

The contract should clearly state WHO will be your wedding DJ. If it is the owner, you want their name on your contract, with no switches allowed. You spent time interviewing the owner and you want that DJ listed. Be wary if they try to leave the name off, there could be a bait and switch. If they are using an assistant, make them itemize that as well. Did you agree to rent any additional lighting through your DJ? Better have that on there too. Your contract should list what type of standard lighting you are getting as well. Also have them list what their overtime charge is in case you decide to run late. You don't want any surprises there. Make sure all correct dates, times, address, phone numbers, and deposits are listed.

So what was our final package? We had the owner for 4 hours at $750, plus $850 for the computerized lighting. This also included an assistant, which is a great thing for a DJ to have. I know we went overboard, but what a show. It was still cheaper than the bands we looked at. One band was $12000! We ended up keeping the DJ for an extra hour and paid another $150, which was already stated in the contract. Sure this seems steep, and yes we could have done just the bare bones package, but it was a typical wedding for professional working people like my wife and I. This is not necessarily the way to go if you are trying to save money. Remember though, you get what you pay for. We got more than what we paid for. How many weddings were you at where several guests commented it was the best DJ they've ever seen? Our wedding was like that.

There are plenty of inexpensive DJs out there who will give you a wonderful evening. Some of you may not want all the glitz and flash we had. Some of you will be happy with an informal DJ who DOES do the condo or bar circuit. We just wanted to shed the light on it and abuse our First Amendment rights by stating many of our opinions on certain subjects. We did find the DJs however, to be the easiest of all the wedding industry people to work with. And you don't have to spend $1600! Just have fun picking your wedding disc jockey.

Friday, April 29, 2011

Wedding Network USA Tacoma/South Sound May Meeting

Time Wednesday, May 4 · 6:00pm - 9:00pm


Location Cedarbrook Lodge
18525 36th Ave S
Seattle, WA



We will be having a panel of experts program, so bring an open mind and a hungry belly for the Cinco de Mayo themed event!

...Full Circle Farms Mixed Greens
Heirloom Tomatoes, Grilled Scallions, Cilantro Lime Vinaigrette

Pacific Shellfish Ceviche
Tiger Prawns, Tomato, Lime, Cilantro, Serrano Chile, Red Onion

Marinated Savoy Cabbage
Smoked Paprika, Cucumber, Jalapeño

Carleton Farm Pork Carnitas
Cilantro, Lime, Cucumber

Grilled Chicken Tacos
Chipotle, Green Onion

Black Beans and Spanish Rice
Queso Fresco, Red Onion

Grille Vegetable Enchilada
Asparagus, Squash, Cheddar Cheese

Homemade Chips and Salsa

Guacamole and Sour Cream

Cinnamon Sugar Churros

We will have a panel of experts...
Carley Vogel - "Blondie and Co."
- the latest in invites, favors, trends in trinkets, goodies, etc.
Tim Nunnemaker - "WineS"
- will discuss the latest trends in wine labelling / personalization. What brides are looking for in beverages for their eceptions, etc
Jennifer Robbins - "J. Robbins"
- The master floral and decor gal / discussing latest trends for 2011 - colors, varieties, etc.

Nems Scarim - "Nems Consulting" (also President of Three Chicks Catering) will mediate and have prepared questions for each of our panelists and then we will take questions from the crowd.

Tuesday, April 19, 2011

A Grande Affair Catering Open House

Taste our food, sip complimentary beverages, meet fun and professional event vendors such as... Adam's DJ Service, Allante Photography, Samadhi Chocolates, and more. Check it out!

** Reservations are Required - Space is Limited

$15.00 per person for advance purchase by April 18th
$20.00 per person cash at the door
(Includes a full buffet, all beverages, and dessert)

This is a private event by invitation only. If you know someone else who may be interested in our catering services please contact us for an invitation.

We are located in the lower level of the Immaculate Conception Church. Our entrance is on the side of the building facing Marion Street.

You can purchase your tickets here: or pay at the door!

Monday, April 11, 2011

Spring is Here!

April showers bring May flowers! Here at Adam's DJ Service we are getting ready for the busy months ahead! Wedding season is beginning and we are very excited! Brides, I found this amazing blog that if you need any inspiration, you should check it out! Style Me Pretty has everything from recent engagement photos, DIY ideas, and local vendors that they recommend!

You can even submit your wedding photos and ideas to be posted to their website!

If you are still looking for a DJ for a wedding, corporate event, or just a family get together, Adam's DJ Service can help make your dream a reality! Call us today for a free consultation!

Here are some recent photos of uplighting that we did at the History Museum, Issaquah Stake Center and Sanctuary Admiral.

Thursday, April 7, 2011

Hybrid Moon Video Does It Again!

Eric Newland is great! He is the owner of Hybrid Moon Video, a great company serving the Northwest. Here's a sample of his work:

First, we have a video blog that he shoots for Charlotte's Weddings & More.

Here's a video of our Wedding Network USA launch party at Pt. Defiance Zoo hosted by Lancer Catering.

Thanks to all who follow our blog here at Adam's DJ Service!

Tuesday, March 29, 2011

How Hard It Is To Be A Professional DJ

I am re-posting this blog post that was written by nationally famous DJ and MC Mark Ferrell because it is very fitting of what we do and believe in here at Adam's DJ Service.

Do You Know How Hard It Is To Be A Professional DJ?
by Mark Ferrell on March 27, 2011

Hard. Really Hard. Really, really hard. Really, really, really hard.

I might know a thing or two about it. I’ve been just about every kind of DJ someone can be and I’ve been an advocate and trainer for Mobile DJs – you know, like wedding DJs, Mitzvah DJs, Special Event DJs – for about 15 years now. In fact, have trained and/or mentored some of the very best DJs in the world. And after all that time, it still amazes me that the general public (and some DJs themselves) don’t have a clue about how hard it is to be a truly professional mobile DJ.

For that reason, many folks just don’t see paying much more than they would for a jukebox or some sound equipment when considering a DJ for their event. And, sadly, many DJs won’t charge more than the cost of rental equipment (national average for equipment rental is about $860). Many actually charge less than it would cost someone to rent the equipment and “DJ” their own party.

But consider this: A truly professional mobile DJ is trained and skilled in a variety of disciplines, each of which could be practiced as a career in itself.

How is thee “professional”? Let me count the ways:

A DJ must know music history and genre, titles, artists, times, how the song starts and ends, where the break is (what a break is), a general knowledge of music structure and key, BPM (beats per minute)/tempo, current music and trends – all types, lyrics (to avoid harsh or R-rated lyrics), and what works for a variety of people, ages, backgrounds, and moods.

The idea is to keep an audience comprised of 10-year-olds to 70-year-olds all involved and having fun – for the whole event – from cocktails to the meal to dancing to the end.

Do you know how hard that is?

Master Of Ceremonies
Being a Master of Ceremonies requires public speaking skills – something that, statistically, ranks higher than death in people’s fears. Proper use of a microphone, posture, staging, and movement are a few physical requirements of a Master of Ceremonies. Technical aspects include proper introductions (there are five steps to a proper introduction), openings and closes, transitions, and presiding over the ceremonial aspects of the event.

The idea is to communicate effectively with charm and elegance in an entertaining and engaging way so that guests feel properly informed, apprised, directed and guided throughout the event, which will help them feel included and participating from start to finish.

Do you know how hard that is?

As they say, “Timing is everything.”

Planning involves understanding entertainment principles and logistics, including a room set up that is conducive to the activities planned – so that it not only allows for the activity, but enhances it. Putting activities in the proper order is paramount and involves telling the “story” of the event – so there is a beginning, a middle, and an end – with peaks and valleys of energy and emotion throughout.

Do you know how hard that is?

Coordinating the event deals with setting up scenarios behind the scenes so that when the MC makes an announcement or introduction, the segment “just happens” and feels effortless and natural to the audience. Done well, the audience will never notice any of the planning and coordination. They will just be enchanted and entertained.

Do you know how hard that is?

Knowing her/his equipment, how it functions, troubleshooting, and understanding all of the technical ramifications and requirements of an event is also part of the expertise of a professional mobile DJ.

DJs understand acoustics and the strengths and weaknesses of the equipment they use, how to adjust the proper EQ or equalization for the room and amount of people it will contain. They know what to do if the sound goes out, what gauge cables to use, the electrical requirements, and use of a mixing board, computer programs, music decks, microphones, speakers, lighting, and other effects.

DJs also edit music for timing and content (take our bad lyrics), create “mash-ups” and other edited/mixed music applications.

Do you know how hard that is?

Storyteller, etc.
Though not a requirement for a professional mobile DJ, other abilities, skills, and talents are certainly displayed by many of the more desirable DJs. These professionals draw from acting, dancing, games, singing, playing an instrument, and magic, to name a few.

A trained and skilled storyteller is a qualified actor who can assemble and tell your unique story in a compelling, heartfelt, humorous, and meaningful way. S/he uses proper microphone technique, creative sensitivity, and proper pacing and emphasis to develop the story for the listeners. These skills translate well to many other skills of a well-rounded DJ/performer, as well.

Do you know how hard that is?

Bottom Line
Here’s the bottom line. Being a professional mobile DJ is much harder to do than most people give credit. Making it “look” easy and it actually “being” easy are two completely different things. Anyone skilled in their art or craft tend to make what they do look easy. What most people will never see is what happens before the performance – the practice, rehearsal, the “scraped knees” and “crashes”, the performance workshops, the show preparation, the research, etc. Lots of “etc.”

When I was working the nightclubs in Southern California, occasionally there would be one drunk fellow who would loudly disapprove of my work in some fashion or another – usually it was about a song he wanted played that I wouldn’t play because it would have cleared my dance floor, so he would proclaim that the song I was playing, “sucked!” Followed by, “YOU suck! I could play music better than you!”

Normally I’d just carry on. But one time, a particularly caustic, drunken “straw” broke this “camel’s” back. I very loudly stopped the music by dragging the needle (Yes, I played ‘records’) over the 12″ vinyl while an astonished, packed dance floor simultaneously turned toward me in protest. Calmly, I introduced “our guest DJ” who “hated the song you were dancing to” and “could play music better than” I can.

Then, I handed him the microphone, showed him the mixer, turntables, and music…then I left the DJ booth.

A few minutes later, after the “guest DJ” was ejected by the mob, I returned to an uproarious ovation of cheers and applause – and the party continued into the wee small hours.

You’ll never really know how hard it is to be a professional DJ until you are one.

And…you can quote me on that.

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Another Winner...

This past weekend we had a great turnout at the Spring Tacoma Wedding Expo. We gave away another trip to a lucky couple, this time the winners were Katie Hickey and Roy Sandoval. Although they don't plan on getting married until March in 2012, we'll be meeting with them this week to start the planning process as well as give them what they've won. Congratulations to them and all the engaged couples out there!

If you end up in Las Vegas, remember that what happens there stays there!

Monday, March 21, 2011

Enter to win a FREE trip this weekend!

Adam's DJ Service will be giving away another FREE Honeymoon vacation at this weekend's Tacoma Wedding Expo sponsored by

First, we'll be printing off FREE labels to give to brides so they don't have to write their information down 50 times at other vendors' booths for drawings. So brides, make your way to our booth first!

All you have to do to enter to win the FREE trip from us is set up an appointment to meet with Adam, Travis or any available DJs from our team, then we'll gladly share a valuable presentation and discuss your needs and desires for your wedding. Upon doing this, you'll be entered in our drawing for the FREE Honeymoon Vacation!

This trip to Nevada or Mississippi is a trip for two people that includes 3 days, 2 nights stay in Las Vegas (Tropicana, Riviera or Gold Coast), Laughlin (Aquarius or Colorado Belle), Mesquite (Oasis), Reno (Harrah’s), Lake Tahoe (Harvey’s) in Nevada or Tunica (Grand) or Biloxi (Imperial Palace or Isle of Capri) in Mississippi. We also throw in 2 for one airfare and a $500 casino voucher! All in all, well over $1000 in value! So use this for your honeymoon or just a getaway!

Then be on your way to view the fashion show and all the other vendors' booths who will be there.

We hope to see you this weekend and we look forward to helping you have a successful event when you hire us!

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Busy Times...More Upcoming Public Events...

Brides, please consider attending the upcoming events to gather more information for your weddings.

Bridal Brunch and Bash
A fun and educational party for seattle brides to meet a panel of wedding professionals!
This Saturday March 19th / 10:30am-1pm

Bridal 4-1-1 Workshops
Adam will be one of many wedding vendors sharing tips, planning advice and Q&A with the experts! The perfect seminar for DIY Brides.
This Sunday March 20th / 1-3pm

Tacoma Spring Wedding Expo
Tacoma Dome Exhibition Hall
2727 East D Street
Tickets: $15
(Click on the logo link above for a 2 for 1 Coupon)
Hours: Saturday - 9:30am to 5pm
Sunday - 10:30am to 4pm
March 26th & 27th

Urbanlight Studios
8537 Greenwood Ave. N. Suite 1
Seattle, WA 98103
March 31st / 6-9pm

Thursday, January 27, 2011

Another Winner...and more events!

The Seattle Wedding Expo this past weekend sponsored by gave us an opportunity to meet with more clients for 2011 and yes, we gave away another FREE Honeymoon Vacation!

This time, our winners were Troy Standfill & Jayme Shepherd!

They'll be getting married in October this year and we'd be honored if they choose us to help with music at their event.

Coming up, we've got some great events that we're proud to be a part of.

Weddings in Woodinville is coming up this Sunday. I'm told tickets are sold out already!

February 20th, we'll be a part of the Wedding Walk of Tacoma.

On February 24th, we'll be a part of Paprika Catering's 5 Year Anniversary open house.

We hope to see many people at these events! As always, please consider Adam's DJ Service for your event!

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Goodbye Tacoma, Hello Seattle!

The Tacoma Wedding Expo sponsored by was a success this past weekend as we won the Merchant's Choice Award for Best Booth! I want to thank our partner Mike Abella from Phototainment for his assistance with video screens and providing his interactive photobooth services at the event. I want to thank PNTA, our lighting partner, for providing us with a great lighting setup, a rotating logo display and a dancefloor with lighting built in! We'll have some of this displayed at our booth this coming weekend at the Seattle Wedding Expo.

And the winner of the FREE HONEYMOON VACATION is...

Michelle Riggs! She'll be getting married in January 2012 and we'd be honored if she choses us to help with music at her event. I'll have the pleasure of meeting with Michelle the first week of February to share our initial presentation with her.

Sunday, January 9, 2011

Tacoma Wedding Expo - January 15th & 16th (Attention Tacoma and Seattle Brides!)

Adam's DJ Service will be giving away a FREE Honeymoon vacation at this weekend's Tacoma Wedding Expo and another at next week's Seattle Wedding Expo, both sponsored by

First, we'll be printing off FREE labels to give to brides so they don't have to write their information down 50 times at other vendors' booths. So make your way to our booth first!

Second, we'll be sharing a booth with our partner Phototainment, who will be showing off their interactive photobooth at the Tacoma Wedding Expo - so get your picture while you wait for your labels!

Last but not least, set up an appointment to meet with Adam as he'll share a valuable presentation and discuss your needs and desires for your wedding. Upon doing this, you'll be entered in our drawing for the FREE Honeymoon Vacation!

This trip to Nevada or Mississippi is a trip for two people that includes 3 days, 2 nights stay in Las Vegas (Tropicana, Riviera or Gold Coast), Laughlin (Aquarius or Colorado Belle), Mesquite (Oasis), Reno (Harrah’s), Lake Tahoe (Harvey’s) in Nevada or Tunica (Grand) or Biloxi (Imperial Palace or Isle of Capri) in Mississippi. We also throw in 2 for one airfare and a $500 casino voucher! All in all, well over $1000 in value! So use this for your honeymoon or just a getaway!

Then be on your way to view the fashion show and all the other vendors' booths who will be there.

We hope to see you this weekend and we look forward to helping you have a successful event when you hire us!